Bra Saga ... Ended??

So here we are, past all the saga with the bra, and for the past visits, nope, she isn’t even wearing it!!!   *sigh*

She's not herself today.  I brought her a table to work puzzles.  She wanted to go outside (that's our norm), but she opted to coming back inside.  First she got out her colored pencils and put them back. Then she got out a book and tried reading, but put that down too.  Now I am watching her assemble a puzzle.  No talking. 

Why am I here??

I have learned over time when she asks if I have talked to anyone, I just say no. Because she either a) wants to start a gossip fest about whoever I spoke with or b) gets weepy because I talked to whoever and they didn't bother to call her.  But they don't call her because she just cries and/or hangs up on them.  They don't call because they don't want to upset her.

I know there have been a lot of changes in her life, and she's not happy about them. Maybe part of her difficulty is having no one to blame, and no one to fix things.  But all of that is just who she is. 

Patience and acceptance.