Small Change

I've been doing some reading off and on, and while I usually call them "escape books" -- simple stories that when you get into them, make the rest of the world go away, for a time -- and wanted to share a few little tidbits, words of advice, because when you find them buried between lines ... you just have to share :)


A man telling a divorced woman he is about to date: "I think the best thing to have, during hard times, is common sense, a good work ethic and a certain amount of distrust." "Distrust?" she asks. "If you don't protect what you have, you'll lose it," he replies. --Good advice, in my opinion.

On their next date, she's dressed up prettily, with the help of her friends and a deal at the Bargain Boutique. When he tells her how nice she looks, she admits her bargain hunting. "You're a smart shopper," he tells her. She tells him that "..sometimes it would be nice not to have to struggle with money so much." And his reply is "Sometimes the struggling makes you appreciate it all the more when you get it." --Another good observation.

The story ends with some very good advice, especially for single women:

1. Cinderella can keep Prince Charming. A good man's love is all any woman needs to make her feel like a princess.

2. The only person who can fix your life is you.

3. Small changes can make a big difference.

It's a story that's made me smile, but I'm enjoying the subtle little message it passes along as well.

On a personal note, speaking of small change.... I had another phone call today. One that was designated as a "courtesy call" .... but for those who know me well, know that I am easily thrilled, and definitely thrilled over this little surprise. Thank You!!! You made my day :)