Whatta weekend!

Today was a really busy day -- and very odd, as well!

It started with a trip to the hospital.  My Dad had to have his chemo port checked, make sure it was healing properly.  My Mom had to have an x-ray on her broken wrist, then see the doctor to check how it was healing.  Thankfully, Dad's port is all good, he starts chemo on Weds.  Mom's wrist is healing nicely, so they changed her cast from a full arm to just the forearm.  She's very happy about that, even though for today it was sore.  

When we tried to leave the hospital, the car wouldn't start.  Dad has an Impala, and they are notorious for having issues with the traction control mechanisms that force the car into a shut down for 30 minutes.  We had called AAA. but as the driver called us, we attempted one last start, and Voila!  It started for us. 

From there, it was home for a bite of lunch, as it took a large chunk of our morning to do the hospital business.  As we were there, Brandon and Tristan were there for T's sports physical.  So I go to see them for a few minutes as well.

After lunch, we decided that we needed to head to the credit union and close out one of the accounts there, now everything is at one bank.  That will make things easier down the road.  then we stopped off at Costco and got a TV for the bedroom -- Dad may need that if chemo makes him as ill as I suspect it might ..... getting ducks all lined up.  *sigh*

I realized today that my parents aren't ever going to be the kind who talk things out with the rest of the family.  Thats just not how they are, no matter how much I want them to be different, they need to be themselves.  As long as there are decisions made and wishes known, I guess it isn't such a big deal.  Its just harder on me being the one who's farthest away. 

My sister had a big planned surprise for the folks.  We were all going to the local country concert tonight.   In a limo - a white stretch Hummer.  I think two dozen people could have fit inside that thing!   Our driver, Gina, was awesome :)  We arrived, and had VIP treatment.  Drinks beforehand in the VIP lounge.  Then box seats for the concert.  They had a wheelchair escort for Dad because there were so many steps.  The concert was loud, heart thumping, but totally awesome.  Florida Georgia Line (who performs Cruise and Shine On ) ; Thompson Square (my fav by them is called "Glass")  and then Luke Bryan.   Was an awesome night!!!

It was made even more special; my brother was there as well, and we got  picture of the folks, with us three kids all together.   the last time we had  picture like that was 5 years ago for their 50th wedding anniversary.  It may be one of the last times we're all together for something so fun.  I'm sure we'll all treasure the memory for the rest of our lives!   

Time marches on and the circle of life comes full circle.
For those of us left behind, it isn't always easy. 
But we survive. 
Especially if we have memories of a really good day :)