Thursday, October 31, 2024

Thanks for Reading

I really like to write.  For me, its a better way to communicate than speaking.  I can form a few thoughts on a topic. My hope is that my sharing those thoughts will cause you to think about something, perhaps in a way you didn't think about it before.  

But my main driving force behind this happened because of my genealogy research into my own family.  It was obvious that there were so many personal feelings about themselves and their lives they never wanted to share.  

It's my personal belief that my paternal grandmother got involved (possibly sex?) with grandfather before marriage, maybe ended up pregnant, with a hasty marriage.  She was always reluctant to share when I asked questions, saying the past should be left alone.  My paternal grandfather was born to his unmarried mother.  

So while maybe she thought the past should be left alone, sharing might have changed the course of others' lives.  

I'm still pondering sharing some of my own experiences.  I considered writing fiction around the facts and making it into a novel, but I'm not sure its worthy of all that. But maybe it will be a good project over the winter!   We shall see.

Thank you, reader, for taking the time.  I like knowing something I've written has been read, but even if it wasn't,  I'd still write! Cuz that's who I am.



Wednesday, October 30, 2024

Fam Time Tuesday

Tuesday evening, mom and I watch my nephew's kids while he works.  As always, they're a handful of energy and fun. And sometimes, they can be a little bit much. But that's just being kids.

Last night, they were wound up tight.  We kept them busy turning paper plates into pumpkins.   Err, jack-o-lanterns.  Then a few rounds of corn hole.  By then the Wold Series game was on, and mom was ready to settle in to watch. 

I tried to entertain the kids with a Match game, but they continued to argue and fuss.  It had just grown dark, so we took a walk to check out the Halloween decorations on houses. Wasn't much, but the walk did them good.  I know it was good for me!

I think part of the reason they were so wound up is my nephew, J has a girlfriend.  And she was coming over.  It was interesting to observe the kids with her, but I see potential for problems. She had promised to make cookies with the kids, and then had to put off that promise because its a school night.  Kids are funny, they have their own ways, we'll have to see how this works out.  

In the meantime, no gym today as I need to wash my car and do some household chores.  Plus its a gorgeous 70 degrees and that makes folks want to be outdoors  ... me included!!!