Showing posts with label thebigmove. Show all posts
Showing posts with label thebigmove. Show all posts

Saturday, June 15, 2019

Friendships (2008)

Sorry if these old posts are a bit boring to some, but I wanted them posted *somewhere* because it was a time in my life full of many changes, and with that, many observations about life.  I was prolific in my writing a few years back - it was something easily done because there were so many different things going on in my life.  Now, 10+ years later? I'm not sure I live with the same zest, or zsa zsa zsu that I had back then.  But that's ok, I'm getting older!

First Real Day - Feb 25, 2008

Current mood:cheerful
Today feels like my first REAL day in Arizona.... I started at my new store today, and it was ... typical.   The people are nice, the managers seem to be good ones.  It's difficult to be the new kid on the block, when everyone else has a niche.  But, that's OK, there's plenty of work that needs to be done.  Seems with all the resets that are needing to be done, we're also going to be flipping counters and such ... oh BOY!!!!   A week of overnights ahead!

I clocked out at 4pm, I was home at 4:23.  That was terrific!!!  It was a balmy 75 degrees, I slipped out of work clothes and into capris, a Tshirt, and walked past one pool, then the next, to get my mailbox.  *grin* yeah, it's the good life. For the moment.  We'll see what happens when its 105 or so. lol.   Although, I hit more traffic lights going one direction to work, than I did in a whole week of commuting in Ohio!!

Last night, I relaxed with a couple of cosmopolitans (something my daughter left here) and they were pretty yummy!  I felt so --- gosh! like you see on TV !  -- sitting on the balcony, sipping from a champagne flute.   Now if only I'd been wearing a ball gown, petite slippers on my feet, my hair all done up ....... Only thing missing from that *fantasy* is Mr.Just.Right standing at the base of the balcony, crooning tunes. hahahahahhaha  Yeah, I know, get REAL!

OK, I'd best be getting some of these boxes unpacked, or dealt with; I can barely move from room to room.  Who knew I had collected all this *stuff* over time?? I sure didn't !!!  Amazing how it seems to "disappear" when it's out of sight, out of mind.  Pack a box, shove it in the closet.  And forget you even have it.   A word to the wise:   If you're gonna move, do a Goodwill donation FIRST!  hahaha

Good Friends - Feb 26, 2008

Current mood:loved
A good friend is a connection to life - a tie to the past, a road to the future, the key to sanity in a totally insane world. ~Lois Wyse

Today, I got some quality time on the phone with Emily back "home" (odd, I didn't live in Ohio long, but for the moment, it still feels like "home"). It's always so good to hear a familiar voice, be able to share things with people who know you. I mean, sure, I have family; I could call any number of them who would be willing to lend an ear. But there's something special about being able to "talk shop" with someone who does what you do; someone you can laugh with when you jokingly say something about one of the bosses. (we didn't say anything bad... HONEST!) Funny how within any kind of job, there's a certain lingo -- it's nice that I don't have to explain every little detail of what I'm talking about ... Emily knows *exactly* what I mean! And her and I have traveled to other stores for special projects together - enough so that I can say "it looks like the back room at Evandale" and she knows what that means!! Another odd fact: Her and I have the same anniversary date with Walmart ! We have some of the same ways of doing things (could that be said another way? that we are both a little bit OCD?? I know I am, in a few certain ways! hahahaha) We're ages apart, and yet, there has never seemed to be a difference between us. (hey Em... are you eatin bananas? or donuts? hmm ? lol)

I looked up some quotes on friendship, and the one posted above seemed to fit very well. Although, there are some other great ones, as well. These all came from www.quote-garden.com :

Friendship isn't a big thing - it's a million little things.
~Author Unknown

A loyal friend laughs at your jokes when they're not so good,
and sympathizes with your problems when they're not so bad.
~Arnold H. Glasgow

Treasure your friends; make an effort to keep in contact! We all tend to get busy with our lives, and think "later.... I'll do that later .... "; Sometimes, later never comes. So if there's a friend you're thinking about, then drop them a note, give them a call - even if its just to say Hello !!! It might be just what they need !!!

Sunday, June 9, 2019

Details of the Journey (2008)

The Long Journey - Feb 23, 2008

Now that I'm finally here, the trip seems anti climatic.   It was a long drive.  Took longer to load than I expected, so we got a late start on Saturday, and made it just past Indianapolis. It was a learning experience pulling a trailer, driving a truck that needed 11 feet of top clearance.  Gas stations were tricky!!  thank goodness for truck stops that are RV friendly ! hahaha   The other thing required was pulling in to all the weigh stations along the way.  We only had to pull into three, out of the seven we passed!

Sunday was a very long day, tough drive because of the wind and rain and roads.  We only made 400 miles in about 10 hours of driving - way below my expectations - through St Louis and stopped 50 miles shy of the OK border.  Pulled into a Super8 -- and discovered that the driveway did NOT go around the building.  Which meant I had to attempt to back up the truck and trailer.  It was dark,  and cold, and it'd been a lonnnng day, so we just left it where it was, and decided that in the morning we'd deal with it.  Ended up pulling the car off the dolly, disconnecting it from the truck, turning the whole she-bang around and getting it all back in place, pointed in the right direction.   Thankfully, without hassles!  There had been frost on the ground, the vehicles, but we had parked in such a way that the sun was melting it as it first came up.

After watching the weather channel's forecast for the drive across OK, I knew that I had to make it all the way, because a mix of rain/sleet/snow was expected the next day.  And Ohio had enough of that for me!  hahaha  There was snow on the desert up this high, but nothing on the roads, thank goodness.  Another 11 hour driving day, but we made it across and into Texas.  The goal was Amarillo, but the city is laid out funny along that stretch of freeway and I didn't dare get off.  So we drove another hour, and found an out of the way motel, and finally rested.

The next stop was going to be Las Cruces New Mexico.  That's a college town. and the freeway literally dumps you into the middle of town, and the hotels are mostly settled into downtown, near the college.  The ones on the outskirts of town looked like they rented "by the hour" --- uh, no thanks. *grin*  so... onward some more, another hour to the next town.  Another small one on the outskirts, thankfully, that I could pull around in.  And a truck stop quite local, too.  Because we're so far south, we had a Border Patrol inspection.  Pulled up, the man waved us through.  YAY --- guess we looked rather innocent and road weary??   Although, the last weigh station and inspection combination we pulled into near Tucson stopped us, asked us what was in the truck (household goods!) and he asked "Where ya moving from?"  then said "Welcome to Arizona".  That was pretty nice; he sure didn't have to.

We arrived at my Aunt's about 2pm.  My Dad had given detailed instructions to get there; called back and given more directions;  I'm not sure he realized just how big and wide I was with the truck and trailer.  We drove through construction areas; and me, I just took up my lane down the center of two lanes through a couple of parts --- didn't want to be knocking over the cones and barrels!   But we arrived, safe and sound, no mishaps.  It was great to see Mom and Dad, that's for sure.

My Aunt's grandsons are the greatest, they came over after working all day, and unloaded the truck, from 530 to 8pm. got it all indoors.  Hard to believe I had that much stuff!!  but,,, I did, I do, now its time to let go of some of it!    My Dad built me this bed frame thing that stores lots of stuff UNDER the bed; made it queen size, so I have a real sized bed now, and not just a twin day bed. :)  That's gonna be nice... (wanna come sleep over? *giggggles*  oh wait, my granddaughter is sleeping in it with me this weekend... )

Well, that about sums up the trip, it was good, non-eventful, and its great to be on the west coast, closer to my folks, and to family.  Lots to be thankful for, and look forward to.  Thanks to everyone for the good thoughts, prayers ... I may be in a different location, but I'm still here! 


New Place, New Thoughts - Feb 24, 2008

Current mood:optimistic
It's 6:30 Sunday morning.  And while I'm technically still on "vacation", I'm wide awake.  I visited my new store last evening (and got some household essentials and groceries while I was there) - and I'm excited about getting started.

For my gals in Ohio:  Yes, it looks like 5374, same floors, etc.  Although, set up wise, its more like Englewood, flipped.  Things are in odd places.  But the store is HUGE and the folks I encountered were friendly. Yay!  Furniture --- gosh, you can tell its a very busy place, and I'm guessing it's not been "worked" since the new mod stuff arrived.  lol.  I'll have my work cut out for me - but I love a challenge :)  And in case you're wondering - YES, I had to have some BBQ boneless for supper. LOL  And the prices of food items that I regularly purchase... they're the same here as they are there.  So that was a relief.  Gas was $2.79 , but I've seen it as high as $2.95.

It's a short drive to work, 20 mins max.  I turn left from my driveway, go about 2 miles, turn left again, and go about 6 and its there on my left.  The speed limits all the way there are 45, so the commute will go fast, unless there are many ppl going my same way.  There might be, as there's a freeway just past Wal-Mart.  There's LOTS of little shops out front, several small eating places, nail places, SuperCuts, Anna's Linens, can't remember the rest.  And it's a very busy place.

Yesterday's weather was gorgeous - about 70 most of the day.  When the sun drops, the temp drops quickly.  But it stayed warm enough to have my windows cracked open all night.   My bedroom is on the east side, so I get great morning sun.  My patio stays out of the sun most of the day, cool in the shade.  The first place I got things set up in was out on the patio.  I can take my morning can of Diet Coke, and curl up into a blanket, slide open my bedroom's patio door, slip out into the morning air, and cuddle into a chair and watch the world wake up.  My view is of the complex's courtyard, a grassy area, with some trees and bushes.  Just to the right is one of the three swimming pools.  The one here near me is the one with the hot tub in it .... *grin*

The folks here are real nice.  First day here, the man across the hall offered to help unload things.  He's got a real cute little miniature hmm.. Dachshund  I think.  Funny how even though I'm sure he's old enough to be considered a "man" - he's young.  (yes girls, too young for me!! [hmmm..... *ponders* ..... Yep, he is] he he he )

This next week will be filled with looking things up, and venturing out and finding them - - the motor vehicles place, the library.   Yesterday I wandered the complex, trying to locate the mail boxes! and yes, I found it, and my mail.  Woo Hoo! 

I unpacked several more boxes yesterday, it's the little things now, hanging up clothes I haven't even seen since last summer! and the little knick knacks I've had packed away for that long, as well.  But it was slow going.  Brianna loves to "help"; as we touch everything, put it where it ought to go, we try to go on to the next thing.  But she loves to touch, play, and move things.  Half our day seems to be spent looking for the tools we set down just a few minutes ago. *chuckles*   OK, so I'm complaining a bit , but I wouldn't have it any other way.  She will only be five once ..... and yes, I love it. 

Although, it's interesting - I have always had so much patience with kids.  Guess my own two, with their complications--- no, challenges!  And I had plenty with my step kids as well.  But I'm used to being on my own.  I wonder if patience is something we lose along the way when we don't have the need to practice it ???  And, more important, will it come back???   I'm sure it will, with time and practice, and a house that's more organized than mine is right now!

OK, enough rambling.  Am going to attempt to get some pix loaded from the camera to the computer. 

Monday, June 3, 2019

This is It! Moving Week (2008)

Counted Down - This is It! - Feb 14, 2008

Current mood:cheerful
I started this blog, and then looked at the date... oh gosh, Valentine's Day.  Well, sorry, you're not getting my thoughts on love, romance, or relationships (and everyone says ~whew~).  My mind is crowded with thoughts of a truck, the weather, the long drive ahead, and all the other peripherals of moving day.  YES , its finally here.  Tomorrow, I pick up the truck;  Saturday is loading day, and the start of a long drive. It's been quite a journey getting to this point.  I'm excited - and amazed at how it all fell into place in perfect timing. 

I'm also sad to be leaving Ohio.  This has been my home; in November, it will be 10 years ago that I moved here from California to raise my kids and gain four step-kids [ I love you guys!!].   I leave behind mostly great memories, and a few sad thoughts.  But my time here has come to an end.  People come into our lives: for a reason, for a season, or for a lifetime.  And when I reflect back on moving here in the first place, I know now it was for a reason, and a season.  I wouldn't trade those years for anything ... I loved, and was loved, by my family, and the friends I have made here.  I will miss the people here ...... You know who you are! so you'd better stay in touch! ....  and oddly enough, I will miss the seasons.  Living in Ohio taught me to appreciate the differences in each of the seasons, and to take what comes weather-wise with a smile.  (If you don't like the weather in Ohio... wait 5 minutes, it will change!)

Unless I find some sort of internet-connect along the way....
the next thing posted will be from Arizona! 
Really big HUGS to everyone .....  I love you all !!!

Goodbyes & Beginnings - Feb 15, 2008

Current mood:scared
Today was my last day at work - and I didn't realize how hard it would be to leave my "walmart family". Me and "the girls" (Cathy, Emily and Tammi) went to lunch at a local Mexican restaurant. It was good, fun to sit around and talk, dredge up memories. We all started when the store was brand new, did the setup thing from start to finish. Its been a great three years, I'll remember it always. HUGS girls! I love you, and miss you already !! (turn off the waterworks Emmy --- that's catchy! dammit!)

From work, I went to pick up The Truck. OMG. I don't think i can do this. *cries* I got the truck, and it drives like a frickin' truck.  I put the car on the back, you don't wanna know how awful that was. and I drove home with it all. Pulling a car, in all that big truck, is really really bad. I never made it over 45. my leg hurts from the sitting position you're in , as related to the gas pedal. my back hurts, and by the time I got home, the dolly/tow thing had come undone and it was a miracle my car made it all the way home with me . . . . that was 25 miles. How am I ever gonna make it 1,872 miles? I just wanna crawl into bed and cry. .... (Update: I called Penske help line, they told me some tips and what they thought the problem was, and how to correct it ... so , we shall see!)

We loaded the front portion of the truck, got a few things in there, and I'm looking around at all my *stuff* and wondering just how am i gonna get it ALL in there?? what do i leave behind? its all boxed up and not separated for that.... dammit.

I had it in my mind that ... I can do anything I set my mind to .... but this takes the cake. I dunno how I'll stand it. And I'll tell you something else.... I had to have a talking to with my son, Brian. He's moaning about things. "This is hard enough", I told him, "without my having to try to keep your spirits up as well. " To top it off, it was cold tonight, the wind was kicked up, and my ears are frozen and ache.

Well, considering how much we got done, and how long it took ... I'll be lucky to hit the road on time. But... that's what "vacations" are for, right?? hahahhaha

Hugs to everyone ... and cross your fingers, say a prayer, dance in the moonlight if that's something you do ... I sure could use some good thoughts :) 

Finally Arrived! - Feb 22, 2008

Just jotting a few words here to let everyone know that we finally arrived in Arizona on Weds.  It was a long drive, and ... no major mishaps... I'll get some details here soon. It took me two days to get enough boxes unpacked and computer hooked up.  Lots of family is here, and my daughter and granddaughter are staying with me for the weekend, so I've had lots of help with everything. It's great to be here, the weather's been gorgeous so far.... (sorry, Ohioans, but it really IS ! )  HUGGSSS to everyone, and thanks for all the good thoughts !!! 
11:33 PM

2019 PS:  Eleven years ago, and I still can recall the long unending hours in The Truck.  What I realize now is that I didn't anticipate how difficult some of the things we take for granted would be, like putting on gas. You can't drive an extra tall rig into just any gas station lane!  And some states required us to pull into weigh stations. (ugh)  The biggest lesson learned is that you can't back up when you're towing a car on a dolly!   But all things considered, I amazed myself! 

Sunday, June 2, 2019

The Big Move (2008)

5 day Countdown - Feb 10, 2008

Current mood:adventurous
Well, it's here, I'm finally counting down in single digits how quickly this trip - no, this journey -  will arrive now.  And I started thinking about travel.  Here in Ohio, I've met several women who have rarely been outside the local county, let alone outside the state; several who don't, or won't, drive on the interstates, some who have never been on an airplane.  As one who has always traveled interstates, taken trips and flown a bit, it was a culture shock for me when I first arrived.  Now that I've been here nearly 10 years, I can understand it ... sort of.  But that doesn't mean these women don't have dreams and fantasies of taking off to foreign places, distant cities, indulging in their wildest dreams. 

I want to encourage those women, give them permission to indulge a little!  Take a risk, say yes instead of no.  There's an expression that we've all read...  "the independent woman" or "a woman of independent means" and we usually associate that with women who can take care of themselves financially.  But money isn't the only thing that makes women independent any longer, and lack of it doesn't prevent us from being independent.  What makes us independent is our imagination.  Give your imagination some respect.  Your fantasies of independence, if only for a short while, are like holy whispers of what's Possible. ..... Turn your ear inward, and lisssssten  .....

PS:  on a more personal note, if you don't think there's a bit of fear in this journey of mine, in starting a new life, in a new city, think again.  It can be scary, but the other side of the coin is that it can be a beginning, a new chapter, a real excitement ...... I took a risk, and said yes! 

THAT kind of day - Feb 11, 2008

Current mood:distractable
Four days to go, and a million and one things to do ... so when I arrived home it's like, OK Son, it's supposed to snow tomorrow, so let's get some stuff done... Laundry first.  We each grab 2 loads and head for the laundry room, get them started in the washer.  Then, because he was out, jacket and gloves on, I convinced him we needed to go 'round the back gate into the patio and pull the weeds that is required by our lease "to take with us" .... (lol yes! it totally says that!) But the back gate won't open; send him 'round to the front to get his crowbar, and we finally get the gate unstuck, but it won't open all the way.  So there we are, trying to crack the frozen ground  and loosen some rocks so the gate opens.  AHA!  we got that, and got in, pulled a few weeds, took a load of loose boards to the trash.

By that time, the washers are done, and we go in to get the next loads, hike them over to the laundry room and load them into the washers, moving the washed stuff to dryers.  Darn!  We ran out of quarters, so I hiked back to the apt to get more, toss them into the machines and .. whoops! who has the soap?  Back to the apt to grab the soap, and finally get them started.  Heavens, but its been THAT kind of day.  Same with work.  I figured I'd feel like I was more on a countdown, but it was business as usual.  Which is a good thing . . . no time to think, no time to worry, just getting things taken care of like any other day.  The only minor exception to that was I forgot to check my schedule? I showed up 4 hours early for work.   Yep! its been THAT kind of day!  Hopefully, yours wasn't quite like that!
 . . . . . . HAPPY MONDAY!  Hugs

3 Days & Counting - Feb 12, 2008

Current mood:anxious
Each day passes, and I'm that much closer to loading truck and heading out west.  Today, I made all those phone calls that take up so much time... shutting off the utilities,  --- and making arrangements for the same at the new apt.  In addition, its required that I have renters insurance, so a phone call to my auto carrier, and adding that policy costs $100/year.  Ok, I can handle that.  But, by combining the two policies? I save $74 on my auto. hehehe go figure, for once I get a break!   Now, if only I can figure out what to do about internet services there..... *sigh*  It's all complicated, and crazy.  Right now, I'm paying a total of $35/month.  Can't find much to replace that. Yet. But I'll keep looking.  

It's getting to be a drag looking at all the piles and piles of boxes here .. nothing is where it belongs, and I keep worrying that I'll forget to do something, or misplace something that I'll need right away, and not be able to find it.   Then I keep telling myself that .. things work out for the best .. they will on these things too.   

My folks are driving down from Calif and will be there when I arrive.  I'm sure my daughter and granddaughter will be there, too.  I haven't seen everyone in a year.  So I'm looking forward to this "reunion" of sorts.  HUGGGS to everyone!

just a PS from 2019 .. .we used the dining room to stack all the boxes as they were packed.  Some had been packed and stacked for nearly a year!  As the date got closer, the less things we would need and more boxes were added.  Except for my son's room.  He *told* me he had been packing ... *sigh*

Wednesday, May 29, 2019

Checklist, Groudhogs & Candlemas (2008)

Checklist - Jan 30, 2008

Current mood:anxious
Its getting down to counting days now until I load up a truck, and actually do the move. And since its getting closer, I'm beginning to check things off the list that are actually getting done.

  • Turn in notice to apartment - Check! 
  • Call and confirm the truck rental and dates - Check! 
  • Make a list of the things that need to get done for the day they need doing - Check! 


Making a list helps me, makes me feel like I'm making some progress in the right direction. My apartment application was approved, so now I know where I will live. That's a huge relief right there :) My biggest concern is driving the darn truck, though. Sure, I can drive in a straight line while towing my car, but ... backing up? Weigh stations? those will be issues. Along with driving in the mountains. I'm trying to avoid doing that. I remember what it was like when I moved to Ohio, but I was only following the truck! not actually driving it. But it was still harrowing for me to watch as it glided down the mountain, and seemed to be way too fast, in my opinion.

*takes a deep breath* Yes, I know I can do this,
I just need to tighten up those old boot straps......
6:57 PM


Groundhogs & Candlemas - Feb 1, 2008

Current mood:ditzy
Since the middle ages, Feb 2 has been known as Candlemas, an old feast day when candles were blessed and sent home with parishioners so that Divine Light could direct their earthly steps.  February 2 is also the midpoint in winter; and also known as Groundhog's Day.    When I started looking up information on each of these events -- suffice it to say there is plenty written.  

Image result for groundhogIn weather lore, if a groundhog emerges from its burrow on this day, and fails to see its shadow because the weather is cloudy, winter will soon end.  If the groundhog sees its shadow, it will return into its burrow, and winter will continue for six more weeks.  Personally, I'm not much of a fan of this ... and maybe that's because I've not ever seen the groundhog peek up and give a look 'round.  If I had, I might be a little more jazzed about this one.  





Image result for candleWhen I read about Candlemas, it got me thinking back to when I was young, and the electricity would go out.  Mom would get out the candles, and we'd sit at the kitchen table, sharing the light, and talking, or playing a simple card game to pass the time.  While I'm sure that it was an inconvenience to adults, to kids it seemed rather magical -- something different, and we had no control or choice in the matter (unless we wanted to go to bed in the very dark! and who did?? haha)  But now that I'm the adult, and yes, I did my fair share of lighting candles and entertaining kids at the dining room table, my view on candles is different.  Every room, and each person, looks beautiful in candlelight.  Candlelight just makes the whole atmosphere seem special -- probably because we don't do it often enough.  Light a few candles tomorrow night .... and observe. Like moths drawn to a flame, in candlelight, we move closer to one another.  

One of the nicest folk customs I found online:  place a lighted candle in each and every window of the house, beginning at sundown on Candlemas Eve (Feb 1), allowing them to continue burning until sunrise.  (ok, I would cheat and use the electric type candles... just for safety).  What a cheery sight on a cold, bleak and dreary night to see house after house with candle lit windows!  (borrowed from Mike Nichols)   I'd love to see this in a town.

Since I've already packed my electric candles, and since its already past sundown, I may have to save this for another year. But, I'll be lighting a few candles Saturday night, just for a little cheery atmosphere (and that will be a few less things I have to pack up!! )  

 May your beauty shine in candlelight today!!!
5:17 PM

Sunday, May 26, 2019

Blogs from the Early Days (2008)

Waaaay back when, I started to blog in another location.  I recently located these old blogs that I had copied to a Word file.  Now that they're found again, I'm going to post them here .... !

Brand New to me - Oct 02, 2005
Ok, blogging is new to me.  So... where to begin?  I live in Ohio, and have two grown kids and a granddaughter who just turned 3 (Hi Brianna!!)

My car goes into the shop tomorrow, because while driving to work one morning, a deer tried to cross the road... and ran into the side of my car!!  They have ugly teeth when pressed up against the driver's side window!!  Minor damage to the car, only a little post traumatic syndrome --- took a few days to drive comfortably in the dark, that time of morning, on that same road again !!


I Got It ! ! ! ! - Jan 14, 2008

Current mood:excited
I'm sooooo excited! and sooooo scared! all at the same time!  Talk about a "rumbly in my tumbly" feeling!!!!!   I got my transfer arranged, and a start date.  Goodness!! There's so much to do, and I hardly know where to begin!  Let's see, details first.   Its a 10-cent an hour pay cut, that's the bad part, I guess you could say. But, the reverse of it .... my hours will be M-F, 7-4, instead of this rotation thing I'm on, and weekends off.  YAHOO!!  Talk about being able to begin having a more normal life again.  That'll be terrific, and give me time to see my granddaughter on weekends!  I'm sure there'll be more to tell y'all ... just know that for now? I'm grinning from ear to ear !!!     3:51 PM


"Its a Date" & "About luck..." - Jan 15, 2008

Current mood:grateful
It's become official, and the dates are set.  I start in my new store Feb 25th.  My new manager has been very accommodating --- waiting for a month for someone he's never met? and had only one conversation with?  It's either going to be a real ... challenge, or its going to be so very perfect!  Either way, I'm up for it.  A whole new phase in life is just beginning, and it's a scary thing to think about, but it's also .... the most exciting thing !! 

Today, Garth's song came to mind:  "Some of God's greatest gifts are unanswered prayers".  In my mind, I was willing --- no, hoping ---  for a transfer to a new store, which meant the new store structure in employee schedules (weekends, late shifts).   And I was so disappointed that things weren't happening--- especially in MY time!  And just when I'd given up and resigned myself to ... whatever would be, that is when it happened.  AND, with a much better schedule, and weekends off -- (I won't know what to do with myself!  Oh wait!  ... visit my granddaughter!)

We don't create our own luck, as much as we change our perceptions.  With that, we take different approaches, different risks, and get different results.    Someone else put it that things change with "prayer, patience, persistence and pluck" !!    Amy Tan says:  "How can you say luck and chance are the same thing? Chance is the first step you take, luck is what comes afterward."  

"When you change your beliefs, you change your behavior.
Change your behavior, change how you make choices.
Change your choices, get more chances.
Get more chances, take more risks.
Take more risks, find more four leaf clovers."

Are you willing?