Why involve me?

Here we go, more on Brian's saga:

I swear, this lady is cuckoo cuckoo cuckoo!  Text messages to my dau on the evening of 7/9:  "Figured I'd let you know what's going on with the baby since Brian doesn't tell u anything.  Drs appt ultrasound yesterday.  My cyst has grown and if it doesn't stop in a month, they are doing surgery on my ovary. The baby is doing great heartbeat was 188.  They said its pretty strong.  Please let ur mom know."

Now I don't know about you, but that was plenty of info from the girl who is having this babe.  We don't need to be buddies or friends, just a few facts is enough.... but then.... 

Around 2pm, I received a text from my son, asking if Leigha could have my phone number.  Um. NO! she can email me.   By the time I got home from work, there it was.  An email from her.  

"I really don’t know where to start because I am quite upset with how everything has been handled.....

The fact that not one single person on Brian’s side of the family could care less about this child is quite sickening ... "   There was a lot more about her own history,  the one fact that I couldn't get past, however was this one:   "I made a VERY painful decision to leave my alcoholic abusive husband of 9 years FOR my daughter. I wanted us to have a better life. Brian helped me with that......"   Ok. let's do some math, she's been married for 9 years (and still is) and her daughter is 4.  Her husband isn't the father of her little girl.

She went on and on about how Brian doesn't do this, and should be doing that.  Why is it so hard for her to accept him as he is?  Why do women (in general) always want to 'fix a man' ??

Her last statement went like this... "You and your family will have to deal with me for the rest of your life, so you better put on a seatbelt.....apparently its going to be a bumpy ride."

Yeah, sure, make veiled threats!!

As an added note:  I responded very nicely, listing facts, and not getting drawn in to the drama she seems to constantly want.  Of course she emailed me back right away, more blathering on and on.  Her biggest complaint:  Brian didn't go to the doctor's appointment with her.  When I asked him about it, he said she invited him to spend the night with her Sunday night, then they could all go together on Monday.  No wonder he said no thanks.