Today, a text from her, wanting Brian to come over Saturday to babysit her little girl, and another one, while she works. When Brian told her I couldn't drive him, she started an attack about how he's not willing to help, abandoning his baby (the usual kind of attacks when she doesn't get her way).
When she didn't get her way, she proceeded to text Brian's sister, asking for family medical history "because ur bro will be a deadbeat." She told her that he "won't go to any appts or even ask how they've gone" (I know for a fact that he's asked, and she's only seven weeks, the next appt isnt until july 15). "I wish I could give a fuck less abt what ur mentally handicapped bro says about me...." then turned to threats: "If your family can't be here for this baby when it needs something i'll make sure you guys never see him/her".
Oh yeah. Pissed me off. My Response:
Facts: What I said to her on the day I picked up Brian was that both of them are adults
and I dont need to get involved in the details. That didnt mean I wouldn't be involved
the my grandchild.
arrived. And yet, last weekend when she said she was out of food, Brian and I
shopped for some basics to get her through the weekend -- eggs, ham, bagels,
apples, 7up, cookies for Neveah. I kept the receipt.
Facts: Brian cannot meet his financial obligations right now because HE paid for
her internet, and HE pays for her phone.
Facts: I helped Brian figure out on the internet how to get to the Drs appts on the
bus. As far as I know, the next appt isn't until July 15th or thereabouts.
As far as I can see, he WILL participate -- in the BABY's life, not in hers.
From what I've been told, she picked this fight because Brian didn't agree to go
to her house to babysit Neveah and some other child so she can work.
do NOT make idle threats with the baby's welfare. Or with an attorney.
Fathers have rights, and Brian WILL have some sort of custody.
Count on a paternity test.
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