POF Normal Guys

My last two posts re: POF didn't play men in a very good light.  But let's face it,there are some not so good apples in the bunch!  However, I do have to play fair and let ya'll know there are some who are nice enough to have more than a few short lines of conversation with.

There's "Steve", and we're starting to get to know one another; he's an Oakland Raiders fan -- but I won't hold that against him!  hehehehe  Then there's "Door #1" who's first question was for me to tell something fun about myself.  And that's not an easy question to answer!  I don't tell jokes, I'm usually the quiet studious one in the back of the room.  When I venture out to take pix, its when there aren't people around .... eh, that's just who I am, and I'm not making excuses, nor thinking I need to change.  I did tell a little bit about my travels to Superstition Mountain.  To me, that's fun!  The third man to message me was someone I knew a long time ago from MySpace -- I found that rather funny, then had to wonder if there was some kind of 'fate' thing that our paths were meant to cross again? 

TBH, I'm trying really hard to ...be patient and give them a fair chance. 
Right now, its very hard.
Because they will never be 'him'. 
Will that be my constant yardstick?  :/  

"get over it.
evidently he doesn't love you all that much
or he would be with you.
Open your eyes ,
get a life,
move on."

Hey... I'm trying.