When I moved to Arizona, my first summer was hot, and I had long hair. Its naturally thick anyways, so I found a stylist named Erin. And she's been fabulous. I see her every 6-8 weeks for 4 years now. Most of my cuts are basic trims, liking the same style I've had for a while. Today was a new day for me. I let her cut my hair short! And I love it! After the Fire Ceremony last night, I realized that changes aren't going to happen if I don't start on them myself. This was my first step.
I also follow a blog of another woman who writes very honestly and open about her own issues. She's Native American, said this today: "[My healer] told me that I should strive to be in relationships that make me happy. I can’t blame others for my unhappiness." And that got me thinking.... how easy is it to blame everything else but ourselves when our lives aren't going the way we hope? How many of us hang on to relationships that are more harm than good? She went on to say "Creating and ending relationships are part of life’s process. Until now I have been one of those ridiculous people who has put love before everything else. I will cling on to a doomed relationship because I love a person. And I can’t do that anymore."
One of the things I have strongly believed in for many years now is the saying that says people come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. Knowing which of those a person in your life is helps you to know what needs to be done. So check your "reason, season, lifetime" scale .... :)
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