Sunday, September 16, 2012

RuuFFFFF DaY

Today was a rough day for me.  So that brings up the question:  Did it go bad *after* I had  [mutter, mumble] quite a few m-m's early in the morning?  Or did I have them because I was feeling bad?????

I had to work again today -- day 7 on a stretch of 12.  Luckily, they will be shorter days, so I can still come home and have time to myself.  Sort of.  At least sneak in a nap. ;)

And maybe that's a part of being a little testy, on edge ....  Well, ok, let's be honest, that's not the whole reason.  But that's another thing.  When I thought about what needs doing --- well, I cried all the way home.  Most days, if I get to crying in the car, its usually soft quiet tears.  Today, it was bad enough that I had to pull off the road, I was fearful I wasn't seeing the road properly.   That's bad. Worst that's ever happened to me.

I finally had to tell someone I thought of as my best friend that I can't handle it any more.  What should have been an easy, short thing became longer.  Its really hard saying that to a best friend without talking it out, because we've always talked things out.  But I tried to make him understand how much it pains me -- and he started to say "let me tell you how it goes..."  and fuck!  no. don't. please don't.  I can't bear it.  It hurts too much to even say "sleep well" .. knowing. assuming. imagining.  I don't feel as if we parted enemies.  We've had too many good years for that to happen.  But things will be easier this way.  In the long run.


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