Friday, July 20, 2012

Life's Disappointments

About a month ago, I decided that I would buy my son an airline ticket to go see his grandparents.  It's a short flight, no changing planes, just  a simple transaction.  Ahh and a much needed weekend to myself.

As a single parent of special needs kids, there are times when you just need a break.  I raised two special needs kids, and my son still lives with me.  He just turned 26, he's visually impaired, and doesn't drive.  Which makes him a little dependent on my driving him places in a town that depends on having a set of wheels to get around.  I could send him to his father's, but frankly, he dislikes going to see his Dad, which is only a $40 bus ride away.

The bottom line is, I never get a break, time alone, in my house.  To do what I want on my own time.  I chose the date to send him away, so I could take vacation time from work, and enjoy myself.  I drove him to the airport tonight, and found out at the ticket counter his flight was delayed by 3 hours.  So we trekked back home, only to return two hours later.  Dropped him at the security gate, and waited a few minutes.  His text said he got through security, and was waiting at his gate.  I headed home.  Only to get another text, his flight was cancelled.  So, back to the airport I went to get him.  Talk about frustrating.  His flight was rescheduled for tomorrow at 145pm.  So I'm losing an entire 14 hours of my "alone time".  And while I suppose in the long run it doesn't really matter, it does.

So just a little bit down this evening.

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